Are your adult children “moochers”? At Behm Law Group, we find this term offensive, especially in light of today’s very challenging employment landscape. Do any of your children live at home, expense free? At Behm Law Group, we call this “reality” because, due to very difficult economic times, it is very common that many adult children have moved back in with their parents just to get by. The bankruptcy attorneys at Behm Law Group, don’t want to interfere with your philosophy of family. However, irrespective of the very difficult present day economic realities, it could be time for you to make some changes, especially if you’re retired, so that you are not forced into bankruptcy yourself.
If you’re retired, you likely have a fixed income. You had planned to support yourself and perhaps a spouse in later years. But now, if the kids have moved to your house, why are you paying all of the bills? Shouldn’t parental obligations have limits? If by paying for the bulk of their expenses puts you on precarious slopes financially, you should make some changes. It would be reasonable for you to demand some sort of remuneration from your children in exchange for your kindness in allowing them to reside with you.
Mankato, the bankruptcy attorneys at Behm Law Group know you love your children. You want the best for them. We only ask that you seriously consider the financial landscape here. Fixed incomes are finite, and you know you’ll likely have health concerns in your later years. You need your money. If you don’t require money in return for what you’re providing at this stage in your life, you might be the one declaring bankruptcy.
You have a right to enjoy your life, too. When your children were young you were there as much as you possibly could be. But now, it’s your time to try and do what you want to do.
We advise you to put your agreement in writing. Don’t just rely on a verbal arrangement when it comes to money. Memories are unreliable. A written agreement should define the terms clearly. A well-thought plan will protect you from slippery financial situations.
Make sure you work toward not having to file for bankruptcy relief, Mankato residents. If you find yourself in that situation anyway, call us at Behm Law Group. We would be happy to help you.